Voice of Common Pakistani !!!

Negative thoughts are the enemies of victorious life. Since our life is very much determined by our mind, our thoughts can make or break our life. Negative thoughts will distract your focus from the important and drain your energy. At the end, you will no longer have the ingredients necessary for success. Knowing how to overcome negative thoughts may make the difference between victory and defeat.

I believe there is an important principle at work regarding negative thoughts, and that is: Read more »

I didn’t know I was so alone till I found myself in rain. Rains that I loved so much, rains that always added spice to my life and rains that always inspired me and strengthened me.
I used to be a bird who loved to fly free and fly high, loved the milky blue sky above and the feeling of freedom and confidence on the strength of my wings, made me the bird of substance.
The long walks and long drives in rain were a dream, people used to get sad and lonely and I wondered when everything around cheers up in rain, streets, trees shine and dance after rain. Why people get sad, what stops them from feeling the beauty of nature, what makes them feel aloof, what dries up their emotions and soul when its all wet, sweet and shining all around. Now its happening to me to. I feel sad, alone and tired. Read more »

This post is inspired by a picture I saw on a friends office desktop (thx Ali for sharing this pic). The day I saw this pic I was truely attracted to the view and the vision it had. I knew the very instant what this pic meant to me and how I see through the pic.

There is always a path we follow, a way to walk and a journey ahead. Life too is a journey. Good or bad, rough or paved its an unwritten path we walk on to an unseen destination. Life has its beauties that unfold while we walk on its laid path. It brings sorrow’s and moments that we repent at times.

There are always two ways to walk on the road to unseen destination (destination that’s either a dream or a goal).

One, you keep looking around to enjoy the beauty around or to look for the ugliness its has, or

Two, you keep your focus on what’s in your hand and let the world pass by with all its beauty and ugliness.

To me holding on tight to what’s in my hand is far better than being worried about what’s around. It hepls me focus and enjoy what I have, it gives me moments to admire my small world within the world around me and it let’s me cherish the moments I have in hand, without being worried about what passes by.

Its not that I close my eyes from the surroundings. I do cherish the beauty around and I do get affected with the ugliness too but since my grip stays tight on what I am holding on to, it brings me back to my small world.

The picture here is a true picture of my vision of life. Try it, I assure you, you’ll love the view of your small world in your hands.

Let the handle turn left and right, let the wheels take the bumps, if you wanna enjoy your ride, enjoy by holding on to whats in hand and feel the comfort without getting carried away by the passing by view or the bumps below.

A father passing by his teenage daughtes bedroom
was astonished to see the bed was nicely made and

Everything was neat and tidy. Then he saw an envelope

propped up prominently on the centre of the pillow. It

was addressed “Dad”.

With the worst premonition, he opened the envelope and

read the letter with trembling hands:-

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An old man was sitting on a bench in the mall when a young man with spiked hair came over and sat down beside him. The boy’s hair was yellow and green and orange and purple. He had black makeup around his eyes. The old man just stared at him. The boy said, “What’s the matter, old man, haven’t you ever done anything wild in your life?” The old man answered, “Well yes, actually, I have. I once got drunk and had sex with a parrot. I was just wondering if you were my son.

There was a man named Bubba and Bubba knew EVERYONE in the whole world!!! Once when Bubba got a new job, Bubba says to his new boss, “Boss, I know everyone in the whole world!” His boss doesn’t believe him, so he says “No you do not know everyone in the whole world” but Bubba says “Yes I do!” so Bubba’s boss says “Well prove it!” then Bubba says “Pick someone… and I know them!”

Well Bubba’s boss thinks for a minute and then comes up with a name. “Tom Selleck! I bet you don’t know Tom Selleck!” Bubba says “Tom Selleck! Tom and I were in boy scouts together when we were kids!” but Bubba’s boss says “No you weren’t!” then Bubba says “Yes we were!” so they fly to Hollywood and drive up to Tom Selleck’s house. Bubba knocks on the door and Tom Selleck answers and Bubba goes “Tom!!!” and Tom goes “Bubba!” and they hug and catch up for 30 minutes and Bubba’s boss can’t believe it. But then he thinks “Well that could happen, it’s just one person,” so he tells Bubba and Bubba says “OK, pick somebody else!” Read more »

A Milk-maid had been to the meadow to milk her cows. Now she was returning home with a pail of milk on her head.

She thought, “I will make cream and butter out of this milk. Then selling them, I will buy eggs. and when they hatch, I shall have a good poultry farm.”

She further thought, “I shall sell some of my fowls and buy a fine dress. Seeing it on my body at the fair, all the boys will admire me. But I will turn them away just tossing my head at them.”

Lost in day dreams, she forgot about the pail on her head. She tossed her head with a jerk and the pail of milk came tumbling down. it was broken and all the milk got spilt.

“Dear O dear !” she cried, “I have lost my all.”

MORAL: Don’t count your chickens before they are hatched.

Enter the Marriage with the Right Intention and Renew this Often

Both spouses should enter the marriage with the pure intention of pleasing Allah, subhanahu wa ta’ala, in order to receive His grace and blessings. The marriage itself then becomes an act of worship and one for which both spouses will be rewarded. Allah will be pleased with them and this will be the most critical element in ensuring peace, stability and happiness throughout the marital life. It is also important to realize that when an act of worship is continued over a long period of time, it becomes necessary to renew one’s intention often to remain on the correct path and to obtain the most benefit.

Remember that Your Spouse is also Your Brother or Sister in Islam Read more »

Allah (Subhanhu wa Ta’ala) says: “O you who believe! Avoid much suspicion; indeed some suspicions are sins…” (Qur’an 49: 12)

It is easy to forget how our actions and manners can have a tremendous impact on our spouses and loved ones, and also how many times our mind wandering suspiciousness can play a very negative role in our relationships.

Fatimah, a young woman of 31 years old, thrived on learning. She had attended college for three years after graduating from high school, but was unable to complete her last year due to financial constraints. However, she was finally able to finish her remaining credits over the past three years by taking a couple of classes at a time through a university that offered online classes. Read more »

Mohabbat rahamdil hoti hey
Mohabbat saffaak nahi banati
Mohabbat narmi sikhati hey
Mohabbat sangdil nahi banati
Mohabbat baylos hoti hey
Mohabbat khudgarz nahi banati
Mohabbat sukh deti hey
Mohabbat dil nahi dukhati
Mohabbat sukoon deti hey
Mohabbat auron ko nahi tarhpati
Mohabbat lehaaz kerti hey
Mohabbat barbaad nahi kerti
Mohabbat ehsaan kerti hey Read more »